20 Awesome Truths About Life No One Wants to Think About

Time is your most valuable asset--you need to prioritize how you spend it.

Here are 13 – 16 of the 20 absolute truths that every single person needs to hear, and your life will improve as you embrace them.

13. Nobody cares how difficult your life is, and you are the author of your life's story.

Stop looking for people to give you sympathy and start creating the life story you want to lead.  And be reminded that writing the ultimate chapters of your heroic life’s story is what estate planning is all about.  Preserve your legacy and be celebrated when your days are done.

14. Your words are more important than your thoughts, so start inspiring people.

Words have the power to oppress, hurt, and shame, but they also have the power to liberate and inspire--start using them more wisely.  “Rap” it up for the common good.  The words you choose to use will largely define who you are.

15. Investing in yourself isn't selfish. It's the most worthwhile thing you can do.

You have to put on your own air mask to save the person sitting right next to you.  Reclaim the temple!  Care for and be kind to yourself.  Never stop learning.

16. It's not what happens, it's how you react that matters.

Train yourself to respond in a way that leads to better outcomes.  Every failure is a lesson.  Control your attitude and you will control a brighter future.

*Most of this article appeared elsewhere at inc.com.  I take credit for editing it, amplifying the ideas, and presenting the concepts in a different light.  John Mce Miller